"Hi Tony, I have listened to your audio book 2 times now, and I just wanted to say thank you. I don't think I have ever looked at love that way. I was stuck in the mindset of I wonder whether I will ever be anyone's first choice. Has my time been and gone and I missed it? I now know that all along I have had that capacity, and I was just looking at things in the wrong way. You reminded me Love is showing up. Love is forgiving. Love is forgetting. Love is acceptance. These things I do daily to my friends and family. I do have unconditional love and thus need to stop looking for it in the wrong places. It comes to me every time I look in one of my kids' eyes, when I see the smile on my mum's face when I arrive at her house, and every time I think of my father. I think that ultimately loneliness brought me back to confusing romantic love, or more specifically lust, with companionship or love. I have always known that love and lust are two totally different experiences, and if they occur together then that is truly something special. Your words have made me rethink, (maybe replace) what I think I need to be in order to receive love and instead embrace the love I already have as the amazing gift it is. Whatever this mindset brings to me will be abundant and deserved. Please let me know if you do anymore audio files. I find that listening in my car, or with EarPods allows a different experience, and understanding than reading the words."

Angie